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The Snap-Back Effect

  According to popular statistics, only 8% of New Year’s Resolutions are successfully kept. This means that 92% of us that are brave enough to set out for self-improvement will fail. Those aren’t very good odds. Thankfully there is science that explains this curious “Snap-Back Effect” and offers us tools to make the effect work in our favor. Snap-Back Effect:   A term coined by Dr. Maxwell Maltz, the author of Psycho-Cybernetics to describe the rampant self-sabotage of personal improvement goals. Maltz noted that you can stretch a rubber band only to a certain length and hold it only for a certain time until you get weak or get distracted and the rubber band will then snap back to its true shape. This is essentially what happens when you attempt to achieve a new level of self-improvement. Sooner or later you sabotage yourself and get back to your normal level of achievement. What sort of person do you believe yourself to be? This mental image of yourself is your self-image. All of your

My favorite reflection questions at the end of the year

Ready to make some serious progress on your goals in 2023? Well, I’ve got an exercise that’ll help in a BIG way. Remember this quote from Nelson Mandela:  “I either win or I learn” … because it’ll help set the tone for what you’re about to do. Ready? Let’s get into it! FIRST: LOOK BACK Think back to this time last year and ask yourself: What goals did you set for this year? Did you make the progress you wanted to make? What helped you? What got in your way? How different is your life now vs. then? SECOND: LOOK FORWARD Imagine yourself a year from now. What do you want to accomplish by Dec. 31, 2023? WHY does it matter to you? How will it make things different in your day-to-day life? THIRD: LOOK AT TODAY Once you’ve reflected on these questions, it’s time to apply your insights to help make your goals a REALITY in 2023. What do you need to learn? What do you need to do differently? How can you jump the hurdles that are su

Better than perfection

  Do you follow fitness stars on social media? Their perfect, chiseled images popping up in your newsfeed to give you just the right amount of motivation to get you into the gym…or does it? Striving for perfection doesn’t always work. Quite frankly, perfection is unattainable, and will always leave you falling short and feeling bad about yourself. Instead I like to remind myself of this quote… ‘Strive for progress, not perfection.’ -Unknown Progress isn’t as exciting as perfection, but it is attainable. And progress builds upon more progress as you climb your way towards the accomplishment of real goals. And yet…the gap between your current body and the body you want gapes wide and deep. Any time that you want progress and improvement in your life it requires crossing over from one way of doing things to a new way. But how do you make it across? How do you go from 50 pounds overweight to a healthy BMI? How do you go from a junk food lover to a health food lover? How do you go from a sn

Getting To The Goal in 5 Steps

  You want to get into better shape, to drop the fat and to increase your tone and strength.  Join the club…most people are actively working toward an elusive fitness goal.  So what separates those who end up achieving their goals from the rest of the masses who are trapped in a fruitless struggle?  Winston Churchill hit the nail on the head when he said, "Never, never, never, never give up."  The bottom line is that it is possible to achieve any fitness goal when you lock on to it and strive towards it every day. Unfortunately distractions are everywhere, making it easy to fall off track.  This brings us to the classic Henry Ford quote, "Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal."  In order to stay the course it is vital that you keep your eyes on the goal.  Here's how to get to your goal in 5 Steps:  Step One: Only One At A Time When you're feeling motivated, and decide to set a goal

7 Ways to Burn More Fat

 Ready to burn your way to a leaner you? Dropping fat tends to be a tedious process that’s slow and steady. There are, however, 7 ways to add an extra boost to your results. Keep reading to find out how... Boost Your Burn #1: Track Everything Counting calories, weighing out food portions, and keeping tabs on how far and fast you run isn’t the most exciting thing to do. But if you want to burn more fat, you need to do it. Without tracking your intake and outtake, you will never be able to figure out the weaknesses in your fat-burning program. Once you grow accustomed to keeping track, it becomes very rewarding when you have a good day. And since you live in the 21st century, tracking the amount of fat you consume and burn is made easier thanks to all sorts of electronic devices and apps. So make use of those that make the most sense to you and stay on top of your fat-burning game. Boost Your Burn #2: Power Up with Protein br> Every time you eat a meal, toss some protein

Create a New You in 3 Steps

  Are there things about yourself that you'd like to change?  Your weight, your habits, and maybe even your outlook on life?  We are trained to think that change is hard, that it takes time. But it really doesn't have to be.  I'm here to argue that lasting change happens in an instant.  I understand that this goes against mainstream belief. Most people believe that change has to be a struggle. We expect to try and fail numerous times before ultimately giving up or succeeding.  Think about this - how many people do you know who struggle with their weight? They want to make a healthy change by getting in shape, but the change never seems to happen.  What is it in your life that you want to change? Do you have inches to lose? Do you have preventable diabetes? Do you have a pair of skinny jeans that you want to fit into?  What is keeping you from making this change in your life?  According to professional speaker and author, Tony Robbins, it'